Ladies and gentlemen, we have a passenger holding the doors of the train open, and we cannot move until the woman he is speaking to either gathers her suitcases and steps off the train with him, or convinces him that it is really over and he should just let her go. We apologize for the delay.

Bob Powers, “Train Announcements

Boston, where you never wanted to live, where you feel you’ve been exiled to, becomes a serious problem. You have trouble adjusting to it full-time; to its trains that stop running at midnight, to the glumness of its inhabitants, to its startling lack of Sichuan food.

Junot Díaz, This Is How You Lose Her

Connections

by Cathy Slobodzian Kress

Except for two years when I lived in Happy Valley (a.k.a. Penn State’s main campus), I’ve always lived within earshot of the train.

Railroad tracks run just beyond the backyard of the house where I grew up. Trains were part of my childhood landscape — and soundtrack. I counted freight cars from our back bedroom window on more than one summer night, the rhythmic clatter of train against rail a soothing, almost hypnotic sound.

The Iron Horse steam engine used to rumble by once a summer back in the ’60s. It was an event we all looked forward to — and our backyard offered front-row seats.

My house now isn’t so close to the tracks, but I can still hear the train whistle in the distance, a lovely, somewhat mournful chord that sounds as trains approach Ardsley station.

Once I was on the phone with a friend who lives on the other side of town, also within earshot of the tracks.

As we talked, I heard the whistle of a train passing through Ardsley. A few minutes later, I heard the whistle again — but this time through the phone. That same train was moving on toward Philadelphia, its tone carrying across the field next to my friend’s house.

I heard the sound and smiled. It was such a moment of connection, the same feeling I get when I look at the moon and know that a loved one far away could be seeing the same sight.

A while back, my husband and I saw a rainbow; when we talked to our daughter later in the day, she mentioned seeing the same rainbow. Such a sweet and simple pleasure.

We humans share so many connections on this planet.

They remind me how much we’re all in this together.

Thank heaven.
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Cathy Slobodzian Kress earned a BA in journalism from Penn State. Her working life has been divided between newspapers and libraries. Her blog, Momentary Joy, a collection of essays and photos, has been up since 2010.  She lives, writes and looks for those joys in a little suburb of Philadelphia — and beyond.


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